More adventures are on the horizon with each day I awake to a promising insightful future. Drinking some hot tea at the moment aids in calming nerves! Got some great gifts including two different boxes of tea, a pair of black fur boots, some day or nightwear, a pair of jeans, a sweater all from my dear niece Liz! Finally got the box from my friend Alynn containing things of my winter robes and other various items of mine and my sweetest son Andre things. Got that December 1st. It was delayed in the mail and had another destination date. However kept the tracking number just in case. Speaking of December 1st had an appointment with Ronald D. Plotnik M.D. and it was a piece of cake. This doctor is phenomenal. It was a lengthy day too which I surely didn’t mind in the least. Have an appointment with Dr. Plotnik and Dr. Kieran a retina specialist who will take a sonogram of my left eye, reason being is that Dr. Plotnik is curious as to what is under the eye, and wants to rule out a retina detachment. or an eye tumor. This is the first time a doctor has questioned this matter. I am highly content and curious myself after these many years. Dr. Plotnik was a student of Dr Shapiro in the 80’s and spent many years learning under his guidance. He will drop a letter to Dr. Shapiro while in the process mentioning me and where I am. This appointment with the 2 doctors will be on the 19th of December. Oh after the sonogram Dr. Plotnik will again check the pressure. Then in June I have a six month appointment with Dr. Plotnik. The first appointment last 2 hours longer than usual because I was a new patient. On the 2nd of December went to my new bank, Canandaigua National Bank and open a new account. Then on the same day phoned Social Security to speak to them. Been taking wonderful walks too. Will be looking feverishly for an apartment too. Have a list of items to do in December. Andre is doing ok! His roommate John is phenomenal. His kindness is overwhelming. Adam Andre’s other friend here is doing well and was kind to go to the Flaum Eye Institute at UR Strong Hospital with me. On a personal note I weigh 85 pounds. It goes between 85 and 89. This is depending on the emotional level at the time. Feeling copacetic with this.
I have come full circle. This is my third blog this month and I am in Rochester! Love it here. People are friendly, the place is beautiful! Plane ride was one of a kind! Sat next to a guy from Green Bay, Wisconsin who lives in Rochester and he is an accountant.
Andre and his roommate John are wonderful and very gentlemanly like! Even carried my luggage to the car and to the house. Feel so at home here. There is the Genesee River which spams all the way to downtown. There is an unique covered bridge over the river. The snow is here but will be gone this weekend! It will be in the 50’s. I first was l sitting on a chair and had the computer leaning against another chair it was quite uncomfortable so now I have the computer on the mattress and I am sitting here. So far so good. I say whatever works go for it! Keeping in touch with lifelong friends and family. My niece Liz has sent me a couples to boxes of winter items, sweaters, boots, jeans and other items and some tea. She is sensational. Asked me if I needed anything and I said yes asked me what size, I told her. One box will be arriving on December 1st and the other box will be here on the 2nd of December, or sooner. My dearest lifetime friend Alynn is sending me a tracking number for my winter items along with Andre’s items too! He is very busy with personal things that are vital and so have to wait patiently! So now my son wants to lie down and get some needed rest! Until next month when I have a doctor’s appointment and wonderful things to discover!
With unusual better than warmth in the air for this month it is a pleasant change however not for a length of time. There have been fires in the Georgia Mountains and one of them unfortunately deliberately set. This isn’t the only southern state which have been deluged with fires. A couple of other states are in the same boat with those who have been sent from their homes. It is sad and more so because of the terrible drought which have plagued this area of the country. Going outside is a major concern for everyone. Your throat, nostrils and eyes are affected in some way. You can smell the scent of smoke as far down to Atlanta which is quite a way from where the fires originated.
Keeping amazingly calm as I am continuously occupied with positive aspects of life. Working into the night from the early time of day it is good to keep my mind going with something that is focused, and uplifting. Cokes and coffee are stimulating to the body and aids in the process of going longer and at a faster pace. A break in between with snacks and eating well makes for a stronger healthier time. A couple of sweets are good too.
Resting when I am exhausted is good and I sleep and wake up refreshed to start processing and planning my time. Dreaming is the first step. Second of all the processing then comes the planning then last of all acting upon it.
I have always been analytical all my life and can’t be anything but that. Some people have said ” I think too much” and that is true. This is about everything! So I sometimes have to catch myself and just be systematic about the important aspects of life. Main thing I have to stay calm. I was noticing while I was blogging a few seconds ago I was getting a little irritated not a lot but just for a second! Now I’m ok. I’m copacetic! Easy flowing!! I notice too when I am blogging typing I somehow lose the cursor. So have to concentrate very hard. Then I won’t get annoyed with myself! Have to keep that in mind. It happens when I go at a rapid pace then I have to slow down a bit!! It is all in a learning process to keep calm with myself!! And it is working! I’m succeeding which is most important for me!! Good job Grace!!!
Going Home at last finally after all these years! Just thinking after coming from the state of Maryland going to the Midwest, then traveling through it always thought inwardly about traveling to New York State. Again then traveling from Ohio to the long journey to Alabama again my thoughts were of New York State. While travelling along the scenic roads in Wisconsin, still again my thoughts were New York State. I leave in two weeks from today on a night flight. Actually wouldn’t you know that my two suit cases are nearly packed. Yes they are!
Have to yet print my ticket which will be done this week. Then installing the venetian blind in my room. It is already purchased. Have to do the rest of Shon’s house which is only the downstairs room adjacent to the kitchen and then the garage. It is going to be four people doing it including myself. Should take a decent time perhaps Called Social Security and everything is set up, asked pertinent questions. The lady was very direct and kind. Alynn my lifetime friend will send my winter clothes along with the rest of Andre’s items on the 19th the day I leave Georgia. Speaking of this state it was nice, scenic and people were friendly and kind.
Have to make a correction. I weighed myself and it read 82.5 pounds. I told Shon and the scale is 4 pounds off, it
is up not down. So the reading was 86.5. At least that is slightly better. Have been reminding myself to eat protein so I will get a spoon of peanut butter each day. Been doing that for 5 days straight. So that is something making an effort at least. Will be living with my son and his roommate temporarily, then getting an apartment of my own. In fact Andre has been looking for me. Then I will get an apartment nearby in Rochester. And yet I am here to stay. Never moving from New York State again. I have come full circle!
Being that it is almost the end of this month, there is no good time than the present for expression of ideas. Time is going so rapidly that at this time next month I will be in my favorite state of all. It is namely New York State. Got my ticket on the 19th. Yet have to print it. Know methodically what I have to pack. Now it is cold and a bit of snow which won’t last there. Finishing up the yard work which was a joy meaning that I am getting needed exercise physically and eye exercise too which is important to myself. Watching the clouds that appear as mountains, rivers, and sometimes oceans in this majestic sky. Every time I hear a plane, a jet I view skyward. Atlanta is the busiest airport in the entire country.
Been busy every day doing something. Watching my friend’s kids, going to the mall, to the grocery store, talking to friends and relatives interacting in their lives. Spending time with Shon, my roommate and friend for over 15 years. Speaking of friends, I have close friends who are now my lifetime friends. They know who they are. And furthermore I can trust these friends wholeheartedly with question. There aren’t that many people I trust. My wonderful sons of course without question. Actually it would be great to take all of them with me. However thats an impossibility because they desire to be where they are. And whatsmore I can phone them anytime as they may do for me. And of course the internet it’s great for contact with others. People here in Georgia I find to be genuine and simply very cool. Have really liked it here. A very good place to visit if anyone reading this is interested in traveling to a wholesome place. Want to know a two secrets. Shon said”Grace I don’t want you to leave” Yet fully understands why. And I weigh 82.5 pounds. Actually today I weighed myself on the scale. Reason being I want to give blood! Am doing Shon’s house before I leave. She and her entire family have been wonderful and awesome to me.
Another month nearly at the end and as the song goes the days dwindle down to a precious few. Not growing up without the advantages of a grandmother has taken a told. Speaking neither negatively nor positively its just affected me in an unexpected unique way. Now I am a grandmother, myself. Have a very special bond with my grandchildren, I think never having a grandmother myself. So for me it is a wonderful experience. Actually not seeing them on a daily basis really doesn’t bother me. Over the many years have had seen them grow up into fine ladies and gentlemen. My daughter-in-law and my son have a website which has all the activities and glorious pictures of all over the years. I go on it periodically to see what is going on with all of them individually and collectively. It is fantastic.
Again not growing up with holidays to the max it seems very odd to me, as well it should be. Speaking of one holiday in particular being Halloween which is the eve of All Saints Day if anyone is interested. Never went out to trick or treating as a child. My mentioning this is appropo to what it am about to script: often wondered why and for the longest time now I know: when my younger son when he was quite small ask me” Mom why is it that Dad makes such a big deal with costumes and masks and all the Halloween things and you don’t think of it that way” David and Andre use to watch scary horror movies at Halloween especially. I just wasn’t into that. In fact I would trend going down the Halloween isle because the faces would scare me. Though when Ian and Andre were very young I would go out with them as they were decked out in their favorite costumes for trick or treating. I recall have a Friendly bag with me.
Living here in Ga. you have a lot of bugs. Which there is a song by Pearl Jam called” Bugs” It goes in part Bugs everywhere. Bugs in your ears. Bugs in your nose. Bugs on the walls. Speaking of bugs, there are mosquitos by the ton. There other evening when one of my friends were outside, there were mosquitoes galore. I had some Calgon Lavander and Vanilla body spray which I simply adore and the mosquitos apparently did too. As a result I got stung multiple times everywhere it seemed. Still have them and putting some anti itch hortorzone cream on which definitely helps. Got it from my roommate. So that is life in a nutshell. It is what it is.
Let me make this short and succinct. Those of them seem to exacerbate an ongoing war of expressions. They are part of a problem and myself is part of a solution and not being melodramatic in fact I stay far away from and type of drama. Though some tend to thrive on it. Holy Crapola!
I feel it is my responsibility to preserve and defend those who are no longer with us, speaking of one particular wonderful human being.
Trust is to be earned. It isn’t just given away.
Children learn what they live. They are the mirrors of adults.
Not really how to start this theme though will do my utmost to give clear realization. As a child never had a grandmother or a grandfather. Children need a sense of belonging and a sense of being nourished by an older generation. In the Midwest and in the South in which I lived a numerous number of years there are extended families.
As a child growing up never had a grandmother or grandfather. Never knew them. When I would inquire I was thrown a bunch of names which meant nothing to me at the time.
My mother wasn’t the type to teach me how to cook anything. Guess her mother would teach her things such as cooking. Yet my mother didn’t do this. She never let me by example. Never knew how to base a turkey, prepare holidays meals.
Grandfathers and grandmothers give a real vibrant living history to children. Telling them stories of the time which was spent long ago.
Still the cycle continued, my two precious sons never knowing grandmothers or grandfathers. Much later in life I met a lady who lives in Alabama and she had a good amount of grandchildren and great-grandchildren so one more wouldn’t matter. I became her friend and grandchild and I still speak to her today.
My wonderful two sons had an Aunt Cora and Uncle Perry which they both met when my sons were quite young. And believe this they were impressed with their kindness they had shown and remembered them also.
My husband and myself had shown an abundance of love. There was the four of us without an extended family.
With the first week in September well underway with blue skies and an abundance of sunshine in this southern atmosphere other places on the planet aren’t as fortunate.
Namely Lac Megantic in the beautiful province in Quebec, in country of Canada: there was an oil exploration. No one has taken responsibility for this as yet. Most likely the company will point fingers saying its not their fault and will eventually never take blame for this. The reason being there will be massive fines placed against the culprit. Though time will tell. It is very sad just thinking of the wildlife lost, the sea life the various types of fish consumed by countless humans.
Second in this state of Georgia there was a chemical spill the Chattahooche River. Nicked named the Hooch by fellow Georgians. This river is extensive with national wildlife and natural beauty if research extensively. It is well known throughout the country. People I am told travel long distances to fish and do other outdoor activities. The Riverkeepers will detect toxic levels and will keep the state in tow until the levels go down or completely eradicate.
In North Dakota in the capital Bismarck there is a giant protest that has recently become violent. Sadly to say this act is here because of a pipeline being constructed by the government of the state or the U.S. government. These American Indians are protesting and rightfully so because the pipeline will be covering the graves of these dead American Indians. How awfull is this event!
In fact all of these events mentioned are horrible in their own unique way!
Noticed online news stories all have the facebook notably there to comment or for those who would like to make comments! This has become most annoying to readers and namely one particular reader!! This is full of Malarky!!!
Frankly, this is a decent hour for this scenario. Normally it is done in the wee hours of the morning although it doesn’t matter what time it is or maybe it does; the point is that it is done when it is fresh in the mind of the blogger. In a general sense small minds are concerned with gossip. Average minds are concerned with events. Great minds focuses on ideas. People can have a combination of all of these at certain times and mainly not just a single one.
You lead by example mainly with observation, listening rather than talking. Sometimes environment comes into play also as it is somewhat more comfortable to have a comfort zone as it makes it easier. An excellent way to lead by example is to greet everyone that you come in contact by a smile a brief greeting or some acknowledgement of awareness. This is good regardless of their attire, their looks or facial expressions. There is a contagious concern for them as another human being. Then if you do this repeatedly it will become second nature. This is good also in the race, religious angle. You may learn so much from others who are different from yourself it would become remarkable. Then of course others will follow your lead. All of us have the propensity to feel more as ease with others who are the same as themselves. Yet it is a restricting bias angle to be that way. You are missing out big time, by just narrowing thoughts as opposed to broadening your horizons.
In a personal sense, been keeping calm doing positive, progressive things. For months my mobile phone as been showing that the messages been full and then beeping at odd hours. Holy Crapola! So took it to Cricket and they couldn’t figure it out. So I noticed that on the outbox messages that saying that it was empty then clicking it anyway. Notice there were 495 messages in the outbox. Then it took me a long time to delete them. So now not a sound.
Went to the Pita Palace recently with my roommate. Had Falafel with Harissa sauce along with Hummus. Had some Baba Ganoush ( roasted eggplant) Sensationally Tremendous. Oh Harissa sauce is made with cucumber, onion and tomato! Its no wonder that it is wonderfully tasting!!!
Everything at the Pita Palace was fantastic!!! The guy who was at the counter taking orders and preparing was hilarious. He was from Boston. I had a Yankee hat. And he commented. I said ” I love New York and he came back with, ” thats makes one of us”
Then he said ” Do you know what we do with those Yankee hats”? We throw them on the road, set fire to them, then run over them!!! I thought to myself How amusing is that!!!! Ok there is a red line going under a good many words as I continue this, now wondering why? All the words are spelled correctly. So this this rather getting annoying!!!!